New from Becoming

Let’s talk to our kids.

26 short conversations for parents and children on identity, safety, and the things that matter most — written gently, made for real life.

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by Lorraine Swart

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A gentle pause —

Helping families have the conversations no one prepared them for.

Becoming is an identity ministry from Pretoria, equipping parents and kids to walk safely through hard, holy topics.

What’s inside

26 conversations, ready when they ask.

Short, scriptural conversation pieces for parents and children — each one a doorway into the topics no one prepared us for.

  • Identity & belonging
  • Body safety
  • Gender identity
  • The first sex conversations
  • Safe vs unsafe pictures (pornography)
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Behind Becoming

Conversations that found their voice.

Lorraine Swart is a mother, mentor, and ministry leader writing from Pretoria. Becoming grew out of years of sitting beside families as they walked through the hardest, holiest topics — and never finding the right words ready when needed.

“These are the conversations no one prepared us for. So let’s prepare them.”